Set Your Intention

How to Set an Intention with Your Charm

A simple practice to make your jewelry meaningful

Your Charm Girl piece is more than just something pretty to wear — it's a daily reminder of what you're working toward. Taking a few minutes to set an intention with your charm makes it personal. It turns a necklace into your necklace. A bracelet into your story.

This isn't complicated or woo-woo. It's just a moment to pause, get clear on what you want, and give your jewelry a little extra meaning.

Here's how to do it.

Step 1: Find a Quiet Moment

You don't need candles or a full moon. You just need five minutes where you're not rushing.

Maybe it's:

  • Morning coffee before the day starts
  • Right before bed when things are calm
  • A Sunday afternoon reset moment
  • Whenever your package arrives and you're excited to open it

Just you, your charm, and a little bit of quiet.

Step 2: Take It In

Before you put it on, really look at your piece.

Hold it in your hands. Feel the weight of it. Notice the details — the way the light catches it, the craftsmanship, the way it feels between your fingers.

This is yours now. And it's about to mean something.

Step 3: Take a Few Deep Breaths

I know, I know — but hear me out.

Taking three slow breaths isn't about being spiritual. It's about slowing down your brain for a second so you can actually think instead of just react.

  • Breathe in. Breathe out.
  • Breathe in. Breathe out.
  • One more time.

Okay. Now you're present.

Step 4: Ask Yourself — What Do I Want This to Represent?

This is the good part.

Think about what you're calling into your life right now. What season are you in? What are you ready for? What do you want to feel every time you look at this piece?

Maybe it's:

"I'm ready for real love — the kind that stays."

"I'm becoming the woman who has everything she wants."

"I'm choosing myself and trusting that the right person will too."

"This is my year. I can feel it."

"I'm done playing small with my love life."

There's no wrong answer. It's just about getting honest with yourself about what you actually want.

Step 5: Say It — Out Loud or In Your Head

Once you know your intention, say it.

You can whisper it. You can say it in your head. You can announce it to your bedroom mirror like you're accepting an award. Whatever feels right.

But put it into words. There's something powerful about actually declaring what you want instead of just vaguely hoping for it.

Say it like you mean it. Say it like it's already on its way.

Step 6: Put It On

Now, clasp that necklace. Slide on that bracelet. Stack those rings.

As you do, think: this is my reminder.

Every time you catch a glimpse of it throughout the day, you'll remember what it stands for. What you're building. Who you're becoming.

That's the whole point.

Step 7: Let It Work With You

Here's the thing — your charm isn't magic. You are.

The jewelry is just a tool. A visual cue. A little nudge that keeps you focused on what matters to you.

So wear it daily. Touch it when you need a confidence boost. Let it catch your eye in meetings, on dates, in the mirror when you're getting ready.

And every time you notice it, let it bring you back to that intention you set.

That's It

No elaborate rituals. No special equipment. Just a few minutes of honesty with yourself and a piece of jewelry that now means something.

The women who get what they want aren't lucky. They're clear. They're intentional. They decide what they want and they keep that vision in front of them — every single day.

Your charm helps you do exactly that.

Your Quick Guide

Step What to Do
1 Find 5 quiet minutes
2 Hold your charm and really look at it
3 Take 3 deep breaths to slow down
4 Decide what you want this piece to represent
5 Say your intention out loud or in your head
6 Put it on with purpose
7 Let it remind you daily of what you're building

Some Intentions to Inspire You

Not sure where to start? Borrow one of these:

For love:

  • "I'm magnetic to the right person."
  • "I'm ready for a love that feels easy and exciting."
  • "My person is looking for me too."

For confidence:

  • "I know my worth and I don't settle."
  • "I'm the energy I want to attract."
  • "I show up as my best self, starting now."

For your wifey era:

  • "I'm stepping into the next chapter of my love story."
  • "Commitment, partnership, forever — I'm ready."
  • "This is my time."

Wear your intention. Become her.

— Charm Girl